Online dating services offer a perfect way of connecting potential lovers. It is especially beneficial for busy people. The key to a successful online relationship is being truthful. It is honesty that serves as the major attraction. Successful online dating profiles is the one which contains nothing but the truth. People have tight time schedules these days making it very hard to set time aside specifically for romantic dates. A famous weekly schedule involve long working days, eating in a hurry and doing everything else hurriedly. When the weekend finally comes calling all they want is to sleep. For such busy persons, the idea of going out to meet strangers does not sound interesting. It only adds to the exhaustion. Busy people should also spare time for romance and Internet dating becomes a better option. This is because of its convenience. It can be done at the office or at home. It sounds great.

The busy people in this kind of mission screen prospective matches and get to know them. You can only be the chosen one if you have a great dating profile. Successful online dating profiles are attractive to almost all the visitors. The higher the number of attractions the greater are your chances of meeting the best among many. The next step of knowing each other is done through instant messaging and e-mails. Unfortunately, some people find out that the chemistry is not there when they meet physically. The online relationship is usually great until they meet physically. What usually causes the change of events?

There is a possibility that such people post a picture which they were photographed when they were younger and slimmer. Some even make it worse by posting pictures of other people. The greatest secret to having successful online dating profiles is being truthful. Post your own picture expressing your current physical appearance. The right complexion, hair size and body size. The picture should be truthful and flattering your looks too. Many people have a tendency of creating a profile containing what people want to read. A successful online dating profile should represent who you really are. I do not ignore the fact that there are some people who have problems with conveying who they are in words. These people should get professional help in writing successful online dating profiles.

Some positive people respond to every message that they get as a result of their successful online dating profiles. Whereas it is a positive reaction, it is wise to wait for few days. This helps in deciding the most promising person. If you are narrow down to two or three serious people, you will get rid of jokers. You should be careful while choosing a tag line. This is a sentence which draws attention to your profile. It should allure people to read the rest of your profile. It is unfortunate that many people lack the skill of choosing an alluring tag line. It enhances an online dating profile. Get some help from the web master if you are badly off. The way to a successful online dating profile is through honesty and patience.

By: Francis K Githinji

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Honestly, I’ve seen it all. I’ve been there and done that. And generally speaking, I’m not a big fan of playing Pick Up Artist (PUA) in the online world. The competition online is fierce however, I do believe that if there is a platform for PUA anywhere, it needs to be utilized at its maximum potential.

I have noticed that with online dating, women can receive over a thousand mails a day and double that up on Instant Messaging. The best thing about meeting women online is the ability to set your mind in the right direction. The internet as a dating medium can help you get the ideal girl of any genre provided you play it properly. There are a couple of techniques and tips that I have used to yield positive results in my own online meandering experiences. I would like to share few of them with you.

Unique Profile
I’d always recommend to put up pictures that A. look good of you B. show you have female friends in your life or doing fun things. The main aim here is to stand out from the rest. Remember to do something unique with the profile picture allowing women to want to see more. When I put up my first profile I laid the following lines on my status bar. “Hi, my name is Kingy and I am a complete jerk. I love to be pampered with and don’t want to waste my time on crap. I’d rather be with you all day and get flowers from you every morning. I love my tea in bed too. If you want me contact me, otherwise let it go. Whatever, I’m a Jerk as it is.” As you can see, I attempted to make it funny and stand out. PS: the main point here is to stand out and not really be a jerk. I got a ton of replies form women that met my criteria not just because it was high value but because my profile was different.

Describe Your Picture
Don’t write stuff that will make you sound bad. I’ve seen people write stuff like I’m a selfish prick. That spells out a clear FAIL. Include humor wherever and whenever you can. Try to make a story. Women love stories and they just can’t wait to read more. Try to reverse the dating frame of mind. Do this tactfully and show that you have standards rather than wanting to meet just any woman. Write down things in such a way proving to them that you are different compared to any other guy. I will leave this up to your own imagination. Just don’t get varied away. Show yourself busy when you get a reply. Say that you get a great number of replies and what makes her different. Try to turn the tables and keep the ball in your court. This is a great tactic.

Play a Game
Create an online interaction. Again remember, variety is the spice of things to follow. Keep a pointing system for you and the girl you desire to interact with. Reward each other points for what you like and take away points for what you don’t like. This is not exactly a criterion technique but it is just a way for you and her to interact on a more personal level. I personally use the point system but you can find or develop your own game that makes you tick.

Initiate Chatting.
Perhaps the respondent will shy away and not want to talk to you. This happens a lot in online dating. This is another reason I don’t endorse it. Women just don’t reply well. But your persistence in a calm and cool atmosphere will yield the result you want to see. Start the chat. Commence talking to her on a more direct basis. She is bound to feel intimidated but it’s your duty and responsibility as a man not to let that happen.

Send Her Your PUA Photo
Once the two of you get comfortable, send her your real photo. Get a nice image that amplifies your personality. Try to send images with friends. Sending her alone pictures of yourself may give her the impression of a marriage bureau. Let’s avoid those complications.

Get Her Photo
When you get her photo, try to add some humor. If I were you, I would take the image and edit it in such a way that it makes her chin look long. Send it back to her and ask her “Why the long face?” Try to keep a decent sense of humor and DO NOT get carried away. If you are thinking of something else, remember it is illegal to do it.

Get the Phone Number
Insist of getting her phone number. Be tactful as you do not want to blow this off now. Don’t use crappy lines such as “Can I have your number” or “Your telephone number?” Try to involve a reason behind getting her number. Try to use “Is there a number I can reach you at?” It works for me and I bet it can work for you too.

Make the Call
Talk to her when you feel like talking. Texting is Ok. But then again I do not endorse it as it cannot convey emotions well. If you’re a good content writer, no problem, go ahead. Don’t show off desperation as this can have a negative effect on her impression of you. Play it cool and everything will fall into place.

Finally when the day to meet her arises, don’t be a jerk. I’m sure you’re a nice guy somewhere down there. Show her that and don’t overdo it. All the best!

By: Rob King

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Oh yes…when it comes to online dating, it is possible to get tricked from so many different directions.

First, there are literally tens of thousands of single dating sites fighting for your membership. And as you may have discovered, many will do anything to get it! One online dating site trick that never seems to go away is the “fictitious member” trick.

What happens is this; you sign up for their free trial which will allow you to view members, members can view you, and you can receive email. Cool…

You set up a basic profile; it doesn’t make sense to invest too much time since you’re not sure if you are going to stay!

Within minutes, you receive a very heart felt, sincere email from a top local executive, or another equally impressive field. Basically, they are looking for someone just like you…in your area! Well now…! You sharpen your wits; construct a very professional, cute, informative response. As soon as you send your response, you are glued to your monitor… amazed at your luck!

You’re waiting for a response from “Mr. My Future”…there it is!

You rush to your in box…and it’s from the site’s admin. dept. They remind you that you can only receive email…you can’t respond to email. What do you do…? Is

“Mr. My Future” all part of the membership “trick”?

You’re on another site…clickin’…cruisin’…socializin’…until you run into someone that not only caught your eye, but you’re both on the same reality page! He gets your little jokes…makes the same little off color remarks…you even share the same music files…

you have the same outlook on relationships…and even if the relationship doesn’t take a romantic turn, you would love to have this person as a friend. This is too good to be true…you spend every free minute instant messaging…emailing…phoning…texting…he is a major part of your day.

A couple of days go by…

You haven’t heard from him…emails aren’t being answered. You check the site you met him on and he hasn’t logged in for over two days. That’s not normal…you leave several messages on his cell phone…followed with text messages. But…no response. Of course you are concerned about him, but to be totally honest? You know it’s selfish, but you don’t want to have this person walk out of your life. He’s brought a lot of simple pleasures to your world. The two of you have even planned a weekend rendezvous…just to see if the physical/sexual attraction is there…while slowly sinking into self pity, there is an email. “It’s a really long story, but could you wire me $325. before 10:00? You’re the only person I trust…I will explain it all later…” Is this a trick…?

Both of these scenarios are true experiences. I’ve said all of that to say this: keep your guard up, until you are 100% sure you can safely take it down!

By: Vivian Johnson

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Online daters have grown tired of online dating sites offering free online dating that doesnt deliver. Most sites offer kisses, roses, flirts, stamps, credits etc only to  hit members up for a subscription somewhere down the track. www.hookmeup.com.au offers free member contact, free instant messaging, free web/video chat, and free chat rooms. Their website also has a groups service where you can create your very own community. This online dating site seems to have the lot.

Hookmeup has all the very best features that rsvp, redhotpie, eharmony and aussiematchmaker offers, with one main difference being you wont at any stage be asked to pay. Hookmeup now has several thousand members. Registration is short and simple, and who knows, you might just find a friend or a hot date.  

Another excellent component is how simple the website is to use. A simple menu to choose from. Its all spelt out in plain english. Long winded and complicated online dating sites are also frustrating for online daters.

With such an over supply of online dating sites out there hookmeup has taken all the nonsense out of the online dating experience. Many singles are taking advantage of this free and state of the art website.  The owners of hookmeup have done thorough research in providing online daters what they want. Free, simple, with loads of features.

Time and time again many online dating sites advertise free to browse, free to join, free to register etc etc. Its mis-leading and has given the online dating industry a bad name.  Hookmeup should be a real hit in this industry. Online daters are becoming savy and no longer need to be tricked into paying for online dating when there are sites like hookmeup and others doing it for free.

Online dating is a way of life for many singles. As a result so many dating sites have popped up over the years. The tide is turning back to favour the online daters given all the choice thats available. I personally cant think of any other industry, be it related or not, where you can find some companies offering it all for free.  The trick for the consumer is to find the online dating sites that are truely free.

Happy dating.

By: Mr Online Dating

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